Dream about me kissing this guy …So it starts we’re riding in a car it looks like we’re in a store partying lot there is a man driving infront of him looking in his rear view at him staring… I say he’s looking hard I also name a comment about the man liking him or something …he said something like he’s not worried about it and affirms he’s not with non of that ….we go to his place I sit on top of him say I want to get to know him better …he kisses me it’s is lots of spit so much I spit it out on my hands and let it drop trickle down my fingers and wipe my hands with the blanket behind his chair as my legs are wrapped around his sitting in his lap … we continue kissing he ask me if I want tongue it felt so real. I see his hair all his features as he’s kissing me … his hair is in a pony tail puff ball … afterward he keeps kissing me say he’ll take care of me and will help me ask if I want 10 I say 10 what ? But I knew he meat 10k he makes a joke after that it’s like this time (this is weird but listen) …this time all of the spit is going in his mouth not mine he’s sucking on my tongue my eyes are closed kissing him but his eyes are open but it’s like he wanted me to look at him … he says next time look at me
Dreams like this one, involving romantic or intimate interactions, often represent underlying emotions, desires, or anxieties about relationships. Let’s break down the elements in your dream to uncover some possible meanings:
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Riding in a Car and the Parking Lot:
- Riding in a car symbolizes the direction you are taking in your life. Being in a parking lot could suggest a temporary pause or a stage where you are not moving forward. The setting of a store parking lot might indicate that you are considering your choices regarding relationships or personal goals.
- The man in the car ahead and your comments on him could represent external judgments or observations you feel are imposed on your relationship decisions or partners. It might also symbolize self-reflection on how your choices are perceived by others or yourself.
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The Location Shift to His Place:
- Moving from a public space to a more private or intimate setting denotes a shift from external influences or pressures to a more personal, deep exploration of feelings or desires. It illustrates the journey from public perception to personal understanding.
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Kissing and Physical Intimacy:
- Kissing is often associated with the exchange of ideas, emotions, and energies. An abundance of spit, which you find messy, might symbolize feelings of being overwhelmed by emotions or communication not being as refined as you’d wish. It represents rawness and unfiltered feelings.
- The act of wiping the spit could show a desire to manage or clean up these raw emotions, emphasizing your need to sort through or control certain passionate aspects in a relationship.
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His Offer and Money Reference:
- The discussion about "10k" can symbolize support, security, or a broader metaphor for what you seek from a relationship. Money here might not be literal but rather represents the promise of care, support, or stability you desire from partners.
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Dynamics of Eye Contact:
- The detail of your eyes being closed suggests trust, surrender, or perhaps not fully confronting the reality of the relationship. His open eyes and desire for you to look could signify the need for transparency, honesty, or a warning to be more aware and mindful about the dynamics of the relationship you are entering or considering.
- Looking into each other’s eyes represents recognition, understanding, and deep connection. His request for eye contact may indicate a yearning for deeper emotional engagement or an acknowledgment of reality in your relationship dynamics.
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His Appearance:
- His defined appearance, especially the ponytail puff ball, might highlight characteristics that stand out to you, indicating particular traits of a partner that attract or intrigue you.
Overall, this dream suggests you are processing complex emotions concerning relationships, the balance between excitement and overwhelm, and a desire to evaluate how you communicate and connect on deeper levels with others. It might also point toward a longing for security and understanding from a partner, while also advising you to be more conscious and present in your relational interactions. Reflect on these areas to gain further insights into your relational goals and preferences.
